On Monday the club community said its final goodbyes to a true legend and stalwart of Warlingham RFC, Mark “Brighty” Bright. A huge turnout at Beckenham Crematorium meant standing room only (with nary room for that), as family, friends, and a great number of club members in stripes came together to pay their respects, and hear touching eulogies from those who knew him best.

We heard stories of a life very well lived, from his days at Caterham School, university, then through work, his joie de vivre, infectious smile and magnetic charisma gave him an enormous talent, as a school friend put it, to collect friends.

After the funeral, everybody decamped to a busy club, joining other members who had gathered to watch the ceremony’s live stream. By mid-afternoon, the walls were heaving with people, the atmosphere dense with conversation, cheer, and laughter, as recollections and memories of time spent with Mark were shared.

The whole day was a beautiful send off, and a true celebration of life.

RIP Brighty

Donations in Brighty’s honour can be made to the Royal Marsden Cancer Charity, please scan the QR code below or click the link. Many thanks for giving generously.

https://www.royalmarsden.org/get-involved/ways-to-donate/donate

Support for Coping with Bereavement

Mark’s passing will be experienced differently by all of us, and for some this may be a particularly difficult time. If you, your child, or anyone you know is struggling, there are support services available to help. The links below connect to specialist organisations offering guidance for all ages going through grief - please don’t hesitate to reach out if support is needed.

Mind	Winston’s Wish	Cruse